Or It Will Master You
Master Your VICTIM Bullsh!t to experience radical personal Power and Freedom.
Master Your PROJECTION Bullsh!t to experience greater Clarity and Integrity.
Master Your DEMAND Bullsh!t to get More of What You Really Need without sacrificing connection.
Master Your "Taking It Personally" Bullsh!t to experience more Connection, Collaboration and Intimacy in all your relationships.
Master Your AVOIDANT Bullsh!t to become more Authentic and Congruent.
What is noBS communication?
NBC is a box of badass tools for leveraging the power of language to break FREE of limiting patterns of thinking and behavior that are fucking up your most important relationships and holding you back from your Ultimate Potential.
When you become aware of the (mostly unconscious) Bullsh!t patterns that are dragging you down, then you can hack into your own perfect system of failure and reprogram your brain for greater POWER, FREEDOM, JOY, and DEEP CONNECTION.
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Is noBS right for you?
You are hungry for more RADICAL FREEDOM and DEEP CONNECTION in your life.
You are willing to see and own your Bullsh!t.
You are capable of COMMITTING TO A PRACTICE of waking the fuck up.
You are open to challenge for the sake of growth.
You are expecting a magic pill to “make it all better.”
You are too busy or caught up in your Bullsh!t to invest time and $ in yourself.
You don’t learn well in a web based format.
You already feel radically FREE and DEEPLY CONNECTED in your life and relationships.
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What do I get for my hard earned cash?
Content (a shit ton)
Bite Sized Video Modules Introducing the Concepts (plus access to the whole library)
Practice and Life Application Worksheets
Regular Inspirational Videos In Your Inbox
Community Access (fb-not org by topic vs forums-can wix do this?)
Private Group Forums to share insight and connect with your cohort.
Membership in the Global Badassery Forum, where badasses from all walks of life can connect and share insights and get support when they need it.
Every week of the course your Mastery Team will meet to compare notes, clarify concepts, and get coaching from Joshua to hone your skills and apply them to your real life challenges.
The course includes a one-hour Master Your Power coaching session with Joshua, where you are free to get masterful support on cleaning up the Bullsh!t where it is having the greatest impact on your life.
Practice and Accountability
Everyone who joins the course gets to work with a Practice Partner to INTEGRATE the concepts on a weekly basis. This person will also hold you accountable to your commitments and support you in sucking the marrow out of this Life-Changing opportunity!
What topics are covered?
What's in it for you AND the relationships that matter most to you?
Week 1: Master your REACTIVE BULLSH!T to turn any “conflict” into an opportunity for Deeper Connection.
Imagine what your life would look like if you never took what other people said personally… really.... EVER. Imagine what you would do differently today if you were not afraid of “hurting someone’s feelings” or taking other people’s bullshit personally. When you really, fully, underfuckingstand that nothing anyone else says is actually about you; when you really grok that everyone is actually always talking about themselves (including you!); when you develop the ability to actually listen to the world that another person is sharing and connect with the universal human struggle or need they are expressing, then you will begin to swim in an ocean of connection so rich, with such a freedom of movement, that, looking back, you might hardly recognize the you reading this sentence.
Week 2: Master your PROJECTION BULLSH!T to awaken Clarity and Integrity in every conversation.
GET THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR HEAD BRO! Judging, analyzing, gossiping, a.k.a. PROJECTION, is some insidious Bullsh!t. It almost always exacerbates conflict and pushes people even farther apart. It is usually peppered with all kinds of insecurities and filtered interpretations. It rarely makes anything better. And it is so built into the way we communicate that it can be VERY hard to see. When you start catching that shit before it hits the fan and start focusing on FACTS and Observations first, then not only are you less likely to be lying, but you are more likely to engage a fruitful dialogue. And Integrity is about keeping your focus on your own fucking business instead of Projecting your shit onto others. And it is so much more powerful a place to communicate from!.
Week 3: Master Your AVOIDANT Bullsh!t to become more Authentic and Congruent.
How you feel fucking matters! Every authentic feeling and need that you hide from the relationship will fester and decay the quality of connection. When you learn how to express your authenticity with full ownership of your experience you will become a person people can really trust. You will be a true mirror for everyone you meet and a space of dynamic freedom. When you stop avoiding the “discomfort” of potential conflict and step into the vulnerability of actually revealing your insides to people, you become a space of radical honesty and freedom that helps awaken that in others, while achieving a level of intimacy and authentic connection that will astound you (and fucking IGNITE your sex life)!
Week 4: Master Your DEMAND Bullsh!t to get More of What You Really Need without sacrificing connection.
This will change your life. I fucking guarantee it. But only if you actually DO it! Because when you recognize the self-defeating nature of demands and wake up to the Radical Power of AskingForShit (that is German for Request), you will begin to have more of what you really need and want. When you become an Ask Artist you will tap untold resources and support in your life. When you root out and eradicate all the Hidden Demands and Unspoken Agreements in your relationship(s) you will discover more love, more freedom, more respect, and more sheer joy in giving authentically to one another than you ever thought possible in one place.
Week 5: Master your VICTIM BULLSH!T to live in your Power and Freedom.
Blame is a bitch. Literally, a little bitch. And when you are living in your little bitch you become Life’s bitch. Cut that shit out! Now! When you take radical ownership of the state of your life and ignite the power of your actions to create the life you want, then you are flooded with Creative Authority to transform and elevate every aspect of your existence: Your Health. Your Finances. Your Relationship(s). Your Friendships. Your Sexuality. Your Self-Esteem. When you stop outsourcing your power to the people you are closest to you will watch your connections thrive!
Week 8: Putting it all together
Each week we will address a different form of Bullsh!t and practice how to master it. We will share personally and practice new things. We will clarify and apply the principles to our lives through course Materials and Life Experiments. See below for more details about this and feel free to shoot any logistical questions back over email.
Week 1 (3/8): Master Your "Taking It Personally" Bullsh!t to experience more Connection, Collaboration and Intimacy in all your relationships.
Week 2 (3/15): Master Your PROJECTION Bullsh!t to experience greater Clarity and Integrity.
Week 3 (3/22): Master Your VICTIM Bullsh!t to experience radical personal Power and Freedom.
Week 4 (3/29): Master Your DEMAND Bullsh!t to get More of What You Really Need without sacrificing connection.
Week 5 (4/5): Master Your AVOIDANT Bullsh!t to become more Authentic and Congruent.
Week 6 (4/12): Putting It All Together
Joshua is a paradox of a man. He's one of the most solid and strong men I know, and yet there's a silly side to him that could fit in with a bunch of 6-year-olds. The fact that he is able lead powerful men's work as well as NVC family camps is a testament to his dynamic range. I've done men's work with Joshua and invited him to speak to my community. In any context, he embodies his mastery of communication, a depth of presence, and an open heart that transforms those around him. If you have an opportunity to learn from Joshua, take it!
Joshua, you model an inspiring combination of love, deep honesty, and an ability to be with literally everything I throw at you.
It's my intention to show up as extraordinary in every area of my life: Relationships, business, life... You hold me to my greatness, even when I feel like you're asking too much of me. You don't let my victim stories slide and this is exactly what makes you such an invaluable resource in my life.
I trust you. Thank you. With love, Bob
“My work with Joshua started as I was going through a difficult divorce and I was holding so much anger towards my soon to be ex wife, and having serous doubts about my own abilities and confidence to move forward with just about anything. To say I was stuck would be a huge understatement. After working with Joshua I feel so much more empowered! I can Love everyone with a freer, lighter heart, without expectation or need of reciprocity. I just give my gifts with greater trust than ever!"
Coach for High Achieving Sensitive Men and Founder of Advanced Sexual Stamina for Men
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Creator of Reclaiming Male Role Models and Sex the Podcast